Thursday, March 3, 2016

Thoughtful Thursday: The Emotional Benefits of Crafting


I've known for some years that crafting helps me emotionally. I don't think I've ever mentioned on this blog that I've struggled with depression and anxiety in my life. It started with postpartum depression when I had my first baby and just never went away entirely. Thankfully, it seems to come and go in long cycles, so I do get something of a break off and on, but it has been a regular struggle. I've learned how to manage depression better as I mature, but whatever eases my soul and calms my anxious mind is a blessing and crafting has been like a miracle to me.

Although I may not have talked about my depression, I have talked about my need for creativity. Some time ago I wrote in this post: "My mother is the single most important creative influence in my life. She expressed her artistry constantly in our home. She always had some music playing -beautiful, rapturous music, like Rachmaninoff, that just made my soul soar. All the pretty things around me were the work of her hands. Things like the painted kitchen cupboards, my hand-sewn dresses, the living room drapes, the watercolors on the wall, the artful arrangement of knick-knacks on the lamp table, the flower garden and even the molded Jello were all the result of her constant effort to bring beauty into our lives. She always had a project of some kind going and one project just bubbled constantly into the next. With such an example, I could not help but be creative myself!

We all live a life of which beauty is a part. While we are all not named as artists, each of us responds in some way to that which is beautiful. Many of us see a necessity of keeping beauty around us. Vibrant color, fascinating form and designs, exciting textures and patterns seem to fill some part of our soul. In my mind an artist is simply one who makes beauty visible (and certainly audible or tactile) and thereby holds onto the beautiful for a little longer"
 
I still feel this way and crafting is the vehicle by which I can make beauty visible

pages from my art journal

Crafting actually does even more for me than satisfy my creative urges. Scientists are beginning to understand the benefits of meditation and are coming to recognize that many crafting activities mimic the meditative process. Crafting is now a regular part of occupational and behavioral therapy. I know that I thoroughly enjoy when I reach the "zen" stage of crocheting or spinning wool. I love the slip of fiber between my fingers and the repetitive movement of my hands. It just calms me. My husband is a scientist and frequently needs to solve problems. He taught himself to knit because he wanted hand-made woolen socks, but he tells me that he keeps doing it because it helps him think through tough problems. When a meditative activity combines with a cognitive activity, such as counting and following a pattern at the same time, you've struck mental gold. It is really good for the brain.

Mihaly Csikszentmilhalyi is a behavior psychologist whose studies focus on the "positive" human strengths of optimism, creativity, and intrinsic motivation. Anyone who has been depressed understands how important these functions are and struggles to maintain them. In an October 2008 TED Talk, Professor Csikszentmilhalyi describes something he calls "flow" -- that short intense period of time when we are so involved with something that we lose track of time. We are simply absorbed in the creative process. The professor says that during this time of creative flow, our mind feels as though it is involved in something important and that we are living more fully. This is the key to happiness, he says. I think I agree. Apparently the Buddhist monks, and others who practice and teach meditation, have known this for ages. The trick, of course, is to hit the flow at an appropriate time, and not when the family is waiting for supper!

Crafting also helps my depression when it gives me small successes. Many small successes add up to a feeling of empowerment to face larger challenges. I remember when I learned to crochet lace with thread. I really was proud of myself. To be able to create something so beautiful is a wonderful feeling. To be able to repeat the creation again and again and share it with others (and get their positive feedback) is a blessing. I still love it when my mother watches me crochet and comments on how beautiful it is. High praise indeed from such an important, talented woman in my life.

pages from my current smash book

Creative meditation and the mind/hand occupation that comes with crafting also offers me a way to self- regulate strong emotion and to cut off irrational thoughts. And it isn't a pharmaceutical drug, thank goodness! A number of years ago I had a particular responsibility that required me to attend meetings where discussions would often leave me soul weary and very cranky. After a time I started taking my crochet with me and weathered the criticism because I found that it would keep me calmer than when I had only a pencil in my hand. I thought better with my hands occupied and I was better able to keep my mouth shut as well. I find, even now, that when I am creating a page in my art journal or working in a scrapbook, crocheting a simple dishcloth, or looking through color cards, my thoughts are always more hopeful and I feel less chaos in my soul.

So, I want to encourage crafting. This is truly part of the reason I write the blog, not only to see my creative process in print, but to share and help others feel the joy of making something wonderful. In addition to Women's History Month, March is also National Crafting Month. And, if that were not enough to celebrate, March is also National Crochet Month, declared so by the Crochet Guild of America. I'm planning to fill the days this month on the blog with thoughts and projects about women, history and all sorts of crafting, particularly crochet. It will be a busy month here, starting tomorrow with a wonderful interview about a hope chest. I hope you will check back often.

Have any of you felt these same emotional benefits of creativity?


13 comments:

  1. Oh my! Yes! I definitely agree with you! I also have struggle with anxiety, panic disorder, and depression for the last eight years. It is controlled quite well now through both medicinal and spiritual practices, and I definitely find my creative outlets to be very helpful in controlling it as well.

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  2. Absolutely! The day seems empty if there is not creativity. And keeping my hands busy, often keeps my mouth shut during difficult times. I love long road trips because that's quite a stretch of cross stitch or smocking time! Thanks for the post. donna

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  3. Sometime ago I realized that I am happiest when I'm creating something tangible. I didn't put two and two together that it helps my feelings of discouragement and depression, but President Uchtdorf's talk about happiness and creativity (https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2008/10/happiness-your-heritage?lang=eng) really resonated with me. Thanks for sharing your insights.

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    1. I LOVE that talk, Rozy Lass! It is one I read over again often. He is spot on and says it so well.

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  4. You are spot on! I also use it as a form of therapy to calm a troubled mind or work through a problem. It does help with panic attacks and anxiety issues - when you get lost in a project from designing it to completion, you get a distraction that pulls you away into a wonderful calming state.

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  5. Isn't it interesting that science is catching up with something that people have reported anecdotally for so long...

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  6. Hi Kathleen! Such a wonderful post... great thoughts and good to read about your crafting journey... :)) Oh yes! It is the best and most accessible way to draw off any frustration, bad thoughts, calm down, and make yourself busy creating something beautiful and useful. Definitely I would like to have more time for various arts to learn, but that's fine even as much as I am able to do now.
    Keep on creating, I would love to read your further posts!

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    1. Thank you Anna - and thankfully, my time is a little more available now that Miss Abigail is such a grown up girl. It was much harder when she was small - so I admire you for trying to find time for crafting in the midst of your family responsibilities.

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  7. Kathleen, just a note to let you know how much I enjoy your website..you just seem like a regular person ,, maybe kindred spirits.. and, to ask you about thr pink edgeing,on this posts top ,for pillow cases, I love that, do you have the pattern? I've tried for about an hour lookin thru your site for the pattern ,just can't find it, can you, would you help ..till next time, molly

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    1. I'm so glad you enjoy the blog Molly! I'm sorry to disappoint you with the pattern for the pretty pink edging pictured on top. It is lovely, but unfortunately the pattern isn't one of mine, so I can't share it here on the blog. The pattern is found in the Coats and Clark Book #1405 called "Edgings: A Collector's Book" and is edging #15 on page 12. The booklet was published in 1994 and I believe it is now out of print. BUT, there were three copies for sale on ebay when I googled it this morning and there are many nice edgings in the book so I think it would be worth purchasing if you can find a copy.

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  8. I had never thought of the future emotional health benefits of teaching my children to enjoy making things! Now I'm doubly motivated! Thanks again for your work and encouragement.

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  9. What a good mama you are! It is sometimes really hard to put up with the chaos of crafting with children, but so worth it.

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